The Stay or Go Workbook
Should I Stay? or Should I Go? A step-by-step workbook to help you decide if leaving the US is right for you.
In an era marked by soaring living costs, pervasive gun violence, and an increasingly fragile social safety net, many Americans, including 40% of women under 44, are confronting the difficult question: Should I stay, or should I go?
Should I Stay or Should I Go? A Step-by-Step Workbook to Help You Decide If Leaving the US is Right for You is a workbook co-authored by Grover and Nova Wehman‑Brown to help people in the US decide if they should move abroad or stay put. The Workbook offers a comprehensive, empathetic roadmap for anyone wrestling with the difficult decision. Featuring sixty-one brightly designed worksheets, and warm, connected prose, the workbook guides readers through a structured process of self‑discovery, risk evaluation, and actionable planning.
ESSAYS
Called into the World by All of Us: An Interview with Masculine Birth Ritual Podcast Creator and Host Grover Wehman-Brown
QED: A Journal in GLBTQ Worldmaking, Volume 7, Number 2, Summer 2020, pp. 94-105
July, 2020.
Bearing Life With and Alongside: On Masculinity, Pregnancy, and Medical Trauma
Autostraddle. November, 2018
How to Prepare for a Haunted Planet While Living on a Haunted Planet: A review of M Archive: After the End of the World by Alexis Pauline Gumbs
Gertrude Press. March, 2018.
Federal Judge Rules that the City of Oakland Can Evict the Residents of Housing and Dignity Village Without Violating their Rights.
StreetSpirit. December, 2018.
In Troubling Times, Holiday Cards Send A Message Of Resistance
The Establishment. December, 2017
New Cold Storage Facility Supports the Growth of Local Food Producers
Innovate 413. December, 2017
Dear Rush and Friends: The Lesbian Farmers are Already Here
Huffington Post. August, 2016
Home Is Where You Park It: Place-Making Practices of Car Dwelling in the United States
Space and Culture, 2016, Vol. 19(3) 251–259
August, 2016.
White Queers’ Stake in Ending White Supremacy
Showing Up for Racial Justice
June, 2022.
POETRY
with risk to inhabit that whole
Writers Resist. June 2019.
“when asked to bring / my ancestors into the room / alongside those they would / want to harm the answer / is surely no. and i must.”
range inflected care in our lavender too-familiar
Ghost Heart Literary Journal | Issue 2, Transcend.
March 2021
PODCASTS & SUBSTACKS
Grover Reads the News
You’ve Got Mail (only Butch and platonic)
Essays in your inbox via Substack.
Masculine Birth Ritual Podcast
Grover Wehman-Brown 